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| Clayton Opera House, Photo by Bert Pohl |
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| Clayton Opera House, Photo by Bert Pohl |

| Decor Design by The Events Company, Invitations by Bride Design, Photos by Bert Pohl Photography |
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| Celedon Lamour Chair Cover and Ivory Lamour Chair Tie Photo by Lisa Walsh @ Hotel Syracuse |
| Maize Spandex Chair Cover with Maize Lamour Chair Tie Photo by Meghan Thomas Photography @ Turning Stone |
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| White Lamour Chair Wrap Photo by Genevieve Fridley Photogrpahy @ Traditions at the Links |
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| Be sure to pick whatever musical style you think will ensure your guests have a great time! Photo by Lisa Walsh Photography |
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| Highlighting a DJ on stage, like at the Clayton Opera House, is a great way to add "WOW" to your Wedding. Photo by Bert Pohl |
| Photography by Bert Pohl Photography, Design by The Events Company at The Clayton Opera House |
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| Centerpieces by The Events Company, Syracuse New York. Photo by Bert Pohl Photography. |
| Choosing unexpected color combinations will keep your guests in intrigued and entertained by your wedding! Photos by Kelly Stremmel |


Avoiding Day-Of Snafus
With any brilliant plan, there are some things that happen the day of at your wedding that are unavoidable – bridesmaids dress tears a seam, you get make up on your gloves; someone cuts their finger on a pin, headaches! But never fear, we are here to give you some tricks of the trade to avoid those little disasters on your wedding day:
-Bride Survive Kit – any great wedding planner should have one automatically onsite, but to calm your fears, be sure to bring one yourself so you can add items you might like, such as Excedrin vs. Advil, specific feminine products or a favorite lotion! A few must haves: Mints, Pain Reliever, Nail Polish Remover, Facial Tissues, Deodorant, Tampons, Adhesive Bandages, Sewing Kit, Bobby Pins, Scissors, Safety Pins, Stain Remover, Double-Sided Hem Tape and Earring Backs.
-Having a wedding planner will deter any stress you might have that you will forget an important item, but to ease your stress make a personal checklist of everything you need and want to have on the big day. Be sure to share this list with your wedding planner who should in-turn present to anyone it affects, such as photographer, dj or caterer. An important item to remember: have your signed marriage license at your rehearsal!
-Let go of unrealistic expectations. Just like with your future husband, you have to decide to accept the good with the bad on your wedding day. A perfect wedding is exactly what you are going to get, no matter if it is executed in the EXACT way you had planned. The most important point is that you enjoy yourself, and be sure your guests are entertained! Practice prior to your wedding dealing with situations that do not completely go your way, or as you planned. Learn how to manage your stress and really take on the attitude if something goes wrong, “well there is nothing we can do about it now, no need to stress.”
-Unmet expectations from vendors. Always have a list of your vendors on hand. Your florist promises you red roses and delivers you white roses. This is where the wedding planner has expertise and an understanding of how to communicate directly with that vendor to trouble shoot every issue as it arises day of. Do not try to handle this situation yourself. Designate a bridesmaid to contact the vendor and express your disappointment as soon as you recognize it. Insist that vendor make every effort to right the wrong before the beginning of the event – and that is what you are expecting. Now is the hard part: If a problem cannot be solved immediately, forget about it. Well at least until the next business day after your wedding. So do not stress the day of your wedding or let the first words out of your mouth to guests be “the florist messed up”. Don’t even mention it. Enjoy your day.
Remember you are beautiful and everyone in that single room has gathered with their loved ones to see the joining of someone they care about and the person they love.
Managing your time as a bride
Planning your own wedding can seem like the most glamorous job in the world: Picking out linens, browsing websites and building ideas. But before you jump off the deep end and into a sea of never-ending DIY Projects and phone calls with answering services, we have some key questions you should ask yourself before you start:
1. Can I set a definite deadline for completing this project?
There will be so much going on in the months leading up to your wedding, trust me. You might assign yourself a project, and then realize your schedule is completely booked up until the day of the wedding. So on top of the other commitments you have before the wedding- does this project make sense in your schedule?
2. What percent of my workday will go towards planning my wedding?
If you take on planning your own wedding, you must acknowledge you will sacrifice work time for planning time. Some vendors will only be open during your 9-5 job, and I’m sure you would much rather be planning a wedding than working on quarterly reports. Cut yourself a percentage of time during your work day- and stick to it. If you feel yourself spending way too much of your workday on bridal sites, it might be time to consider other options.
3. How will this project affect my stress level?
Let’s not forget that on top of your impending wedding, you are also supposed to be a happy and beautiful fiancée. A very important aspect to consider is your happiness level. If a project becomes so stressful that you aren’t having fun anymore, it is not worth it.
4. Will I be able to spend time with my loved ones?
The worst outcome of the pressures of planning is the effect it can have on your loved ones- especially your soon-to-be husband. If you find that your stress level, time commitments or anything else is causing you to neglect your mate or spew molten lava at him with your mouth- then it is time to reconsider. This wedding is for both of you- and when planning takes over your relationship- it cannot end well.
5. All in all: be smart, and make good choices.
Especially when it comes to centerpieces- because no one wants to see a Paper Mache centerpiece ;)
The Planning Panic
All brides have had one. It can hit you at any moment- in a million ways. You feel panicked, stressed and you can almost feel yourself morphing into …Bridezilla! It’s in these moments, before you destruct anything in your path where one point becomes painfully obvious: You need an Event Planner.
We are a wedding planning/décor company and we believe in what our business can do to bring a vision of a perfect wedding to life! We also want what is best for our brides, regardless; So whether you are a potential new client or just perusing the website for fun, we want to offer you up some helpful hints from our wedding pros.
What to look forward to this week:
-Some valuable lessons in time management as a bride
-A quick rundown of what may go wrong on the big day- and how to avoid it!
-A list of hassle-free services that your vendors will provide
-And as always, some fabulous pictures of our past events
We look forward to hearing your feedback, and more importantly your wedding day stories! Brides and their weddings will be featured each week on our blog, so please submit wedding day pictures to marrymeNY@gmail.com if you feel your wedding day was the perfect vision brought to life!
Happy reading!
Shannon Lach
Wedding Director/Decor Designer
The Events Company